I’ve lost my mind. I thought maybe you should know. Not really but I AM quitting Adderall. Or I’m at least TRYING to quit taking Adderall… I’m sure this is common knowledge at least with the folks that know me personally that I’ve always had a slight bit of an issue with being flakey. I say I’m going to show up here on this day or have whatever done by this time & I usually get caught up with something “new” (bright & shiny things attract me) & completely forget about what it was I was supposed to be doing. I have ADD. I’ve had ADD my entire life but as a child I refused to take meds for it. This made getting good grades (in honors classes because I am IN FACT a genius according to my intelligence quotient… Just not a very productive one!) pretty much not at all possible. The only reason I would even force myself to pay attention long enough to get passing grades was so I could continue with my school related extra curricular activities like drama, musicals, show choir & dancing on the pom squad. You had to have at least “C” average to participate in those SUPER SWEET activities.
So yeah, I know this about myself… It’s extremely hard for me complete tasks or get things done ESPECIALLY if there is (even if it’s only in my head) a time line that these things need to be completed on. Time constraints and needing to finish anything pretty much stresses me out to the point of me having servere panic attacks. The only reason my website is successful now is due to Adderall. I have been on Adderall since I started my site. It’s been the only thing that has made it possible for me work from home without someone standing over me yelling at me to complete tasks. So why do I want to ween myself off of this wonder drug? Because I’m scared of pharmaceuticals. I mean if you remember, I DID have a totally random stroke that was caused by birth control 2 years back… That’s enough to scare the pants off of anyone, right?
Well the other thing was that I’ve had these heart murmurs (or palpitations… I don’t know which is the technical term for what I’ve been experiencing) since I was in high school when I abused highly dangerous diet pills to be able to function. I guess this was my way of self medicating? Anyhow I noticed them one night when I was laying in bed on the phone and my heart had a extremely hard beat and then felt like it stopped. I of course freaked out & ran into my mom’s room screaming that my heart had stopped. She explained to me that if my heart had stopped I wouldn’t be able to run around and freak out like that. I’ve had doctors do a heart scan on me & each time they’ve found nothing. But they aren’t consistent & as a matter of fact I probably haven’t had one of these heart thingies in like 4 years until a few months ago. After I would take my 1st dose of Adderall in the mornings I would get them immediately & sometimes they would continue through out the day. I’d never noticed them that frequently before & since Adderall HAS BEEN KNOWN to cause sudden death via hearth failure this concerns me as it would anyone.
So please bare with me. I am trying to figure out what supplements I can take in place of Adderall as well as safer supplements that with work the same way that Adderall did for me helping me to concentrate & get things done. Until I get this all straight I will be a little slow on a BUNCH of different levels. I need you to encourage me & help me get through this. Also when I had to be taken off of Adderall cold turkey for 6 months after my stroke while I was on blood thinners I suffered from a MAJOR depression. You might notice that this has already started sneaking into my life. You’ve probably been able to tell by my tweets lately that I’m already feeling the effects of the depression cause from withdrawal. This will also make it hard for me to want to accomplish things. But please remember that I am doing my best & will continue to do my best through this & even after this is all over to be there for you guys & keep you happy!
You’ll notice that I will (and have already) possibly mix up show times, get slow on editing & posting new videos, cancel the HD shows when I’m exhausted or feeling down because I CAN cancel them without losing anything (if I cancel the MPI shows they won’t pay me & I can’t have that!). I AM however working on a schedule for myself and if I can master it (which so far I haven’t been able to stick to it for even a whole damned day but I’ll never give up!) that will help me get my updates to you guys on a regular basis! An example of my scatterbrained mentality right now I have been working on this blog post for a WHOLE WEEK. Well I started writing it on Monday. But I wanted to finish it so that you would know what I’m going through & what I’m up against.
To read more info on quitting Adderall (& how you could possibly help me with this VERY DIFFICULT transition) click here!!! Also I have placed a lot of items on my “health” wish list for helping with my mood & even some supplements that were recommended by the website linked above! So any help you give by sending me the items from my “health” wish list will be HIGHLY appreciated! Thank you guys for being patient with me & we’ll totally get through this together! You homies are my heart! I love you & as always email me at JessaFlux@UndressJess.com if you need help with anything or even to simply offer suggestions on videos for the site. I’m working on posting 2 fun little requested videos on the site as we speak! :)
Thanks for reading & understanding!
Jessa
Friday, April 27, 2012
Monday, February 27, 2012
Keep Your Kids Away From The Internetz Plz.
I LOVE this woman. She is part of the reason I am who I am. (Not the “porn” part of my life necessarily but definitely my personality and the way I view the world largely was influenced by this amazing woman at an early age!)
Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you my hero… Margaret Cho! (Read her blog post here before you read any of my blog entry any further…)
I felt the need to comment on this blog post on her actual blog page but I tried and got way off course as per usual… So I’m turning into MY OWN blog post instead so here it goes!
Low self esteem from an early age is what led me to be in the business that I'm in now. I KNOW that. I was constantly ridiculed for being fat, having bucked (& crooked!) teeth, or being "gross" during my entire childhood. When I developed an eating disorder and lost a ton of weight very quickly when I was in my sophomore year of high school, people at school started basically rewarding me for being obsessed with not eating food. I HATED them for this. All of a sudden guys wanted to hang out and all these girls started worshipping me because I was a total SKINNY goth babe now and not the fat ass goth slug I had been before.
This is why I get a strange satisfaction out of presenting myself as "sexy" and being paid extremely well for it now-a-days. I still feel ugly every time I look in the mirror but I feel that with clothing, hair, make-up and a general false presentation of one’s self anyone can pull off being stereotypically attractive. I'm like the “Wizard of Oz” when it comes to this. I'm still ugly, fat and have busted crooked teeth behind all the smoke and mirrors. I find it extremely hilarious that when people from high school see me out that they try to do anything they can to sleep with me as if I'm some object that can be coerced into sex that easily. Some of these people don't even know what I do for a living so it's not that they think I'm easy because I get naked on the the internet… I don’t know what it is exactly? Maybe it’s the make-up, the hair extensions and my body that’s thinner than their significant other’s that had children right after we graduated?
I know for a fact that if youtube was around when I was a preteen I would have done the same exact type of videos that my girl Margaret was talking about in her blog post I linked to you above… I’d ENJOY that dirty old men (no offense guys! But if you’re telling anyone under the legal age that they are sexy you are a dirty old man…) would probably compliment me & I would probably be crushed when the internet “trolls” would come out and prey on my insecurities and list every flaw I had and call me horrible names. As a side note, this is actually why I disable commenting on all of my video blogs on youtube these days… I just can’t take the bullshit. But yeah I definitely think it would be in any parent’s best interest to limit their child’s internet usage because I know PLENTY of kids with low self esteem that would be looking for any sort of validation and would try one of these “Am I Pretty?” video blog deals.
Honestly I have been on the internet since 1st grade. My grandpa had Prodigy and we’d surf the net for hours upon hours at a time together. This was ACCEPTABLE internet usage for a minor because we would be looking up all kinds of neat stuff that the web had to offer TOGETHER so he knew what the hell I was looking at. However when I got a tiny bit older and we got that magical AOL he’d leave me to do as I pleased. I had like over 100 boyfriends ranging from ages 18 to 40 something from all over the United States from 3rd grade on. I was sexy girl with “blonde hair and blue eyes that just turned 18” as far as any of them knew. I am hilarious.
This story turns sinister is that I would totally be having “cyber sex” with grown men at the age of 8 and 9 years old. Obviously I wasn’t dumb enough to agree to meet anyone but with old school AOL it DID list you in a PUBLIC directory that gave you city and state so this wasn’t exactly safe for me to do either… I knew about that but didn’t care about the risks. I was getting attention and it was exciting to my young heart.
Now this was forever ago! You can just imagine how weird kids are today. Because I know for a fact this wasn’t strange behavior for a kid in the 90’s… I have talked to many of my friends that are my age that had similar experiences with the interwebz all through their childhood years as well. Also parents, kids aren’t stupid. Mom, I knew the password to the satellite and would watch porn pretty much every night, just so you know… You’re NOT clever.
So in conclusion my opinion of what Cho discussed in her blog post above is just a small part of the whole PROBLEM with kids having free reign on the internet. Like the guy said in the video that she included in her blog post, it’s a parenting issue. “Cyber bullying” has no place in any child’s life and that along with inappropriate sexual attention can both be extremely harmful to a child who’s just developing their sense of self along with their sexuality.
I am PERSONALLY “cyber bullied” to the ends of the earth and back because I am naked online and some asshats take that for bait and try to bring me down. I have gotten some CRAZY ASS emails/comments on several of my different public posts/profiles (of ALL kinds) online. But I am now an adult and I can see that those people that “troll” the internet to “cyber bully” other people (like me, that have the nerve to put ourselves out there…) are so just sad loser fucks that hate themselves and want to take it out on everyone else. Especially on people that they see as being thinner, happier, richer (or whatever their personal insecurities may be) than them.
A happy person that loves them self has WAY MORE important things to do with their lives than sit on a computer and point out the “flaws” in someone else. Case and point. At this point I mainly feel sorry for these people and often laugh at them. But as a child or even a teenager there is no way I would have had the life experience to understand the sad psychology behind any “bully”, let alone an anonymous “cyber bully”. If I had I wouldn’t still have low self esteem about my appearance due to the fucked up kids that made fun of me for this or that through my childhood years and I would have turned out to be a MUCH more interesting & successful adult and NOT a nude model that needs constant validation on her appearance.
Just saying… Watch your damn kids. Get them involved with activities that promote WHO they are INSIDE and don’t put importance on what they look like on the OUTSIDE. Instead of my grandma putting me in modeling school I wish she would have enrolled me in voice (or piano!) lessons. Sure the modeling school helped me learn how to hold myself and “pretend” to be sexy in photos but teaching a child how to be sexy is WRONG! And this goes for allowing your children to take dance lessons from studios that put them in bras and booty shorts and have them dancing to sexually themed music that they don’t know anything about. All that does is teach your little girls how to be AWESOME strippers with advanced musicality (like me!) when they grow up. Children absorb what they are taught and put stock into it like no one else. “Oh I get praised by my parents, teachers and peers when I do my sexy jazz dance perfectly to this R. Kelly song!? WINNING! I wanna dance sexy and get praised FOREVER because it makes me feel envied, worthy and desired!” Or at least that was my thought process when I was a child and look how I turned out?
I’m not saying I think my job, stripping or any other sort of adult work is terrible and should be abolished or ridiculed. I truly believe that by being an adult worker I’ve been allowed the chance to work through a lot of these issues in a proactive and positive way! I know myself and know where these strange parts of me stem from now because of the work I do. But you can’t help but notice the fact that dancing sexily (on dance teams NOT at the studio I grew up taking dance classes at! My teacher was very against having children dance to age inappropriate music in an age inappropriate way!) to sexy music or having “cyber sex” with grown men who thought I was legal and being praised and given massive amounts of attention for these activities had a direct effect on who I am today.
I was “pretty” when I danced well in a sexual manner. I was “pretty” when I was lying (saying I had blonde hair and blue eyes) and could and would take it in any hole that the “chatter” I was IMing with desired. This can not be good for a child’s mental or sexual development because these activities place priority on things they shouldn’t know about until they are mature enough to process that kind of attention.
That’s my 2 cents. The End. :)
Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you my hero… Margaret Cho! (Read her blog post here before you read any of my blog entry any further…)
I felt the need to comment on this blog post on her actual blog page but I tried and got way off course as per usual… So I’m turning into MY OWN blog post instead so here it goes!
Low self esteem from an early age is what led me to be in the business that I'm in now. I KNOW that. I was constantly ridiculed for being fat, having bucked (& crooked!) teeth, or being "gross" during my entire childhood. When I developed an eating disorder and lost a ton of weight very quickly when I was in my sophomore year of high school, people at school started basically rewarding me for being obsessed with not eating food. I HATED them for this. All of a sudden guys wanted to hang out and all these girls started worshipping me because I was a total SKINNY goth babe now and not the fat ass goth slug I had been before.
This is why I get a strange satisfaction out of presenting myself as "sexy" and being paid extremely well for it now-a-days. I still feel ugly every time I look in the mirror but I feel that with clothing, hair, make-up and a general false presentation of one’s self anyone can pull off being stereotypically attractive. I'm like the “Wizard of Oz” when it comes to this. I'm still ugly, fat and have busted crooked teeth behind all the smoke and mirrors. I find it extremely hilarious that when people from high school see me out that they try to do anything they can to sleep with me as if I'm some object that can be coerced into sex that easily. Some of these people don't even know what I do for a living so it's not that they think I'm easy because I get naked on the the internet… I don’t know what it is exactly? Maybe it’s the make-up, the hair extensions and my body that’s thinner than their significant other’s that had children right after we graduated?
I know for a fact that if youtube was around when I was a preteen I would have done the same exact type of videos that my girl Margaret was talking about in her blog post I linked to you above… I’d ENJOY that dirty old men (no offense guys! But if you’re telling anyone under the legal age that they are sexy you are a dirty old man…) would probably compliment me & I would probably be crushed when the internet “trolls” would come out and prey on my insecurities and list every flaw I had and call me horrible names. As a side note, this is actually why I disable commenting on all of my video blogs on youtube these days… I just can’t take the bullshit. But yeah I definitely think it would be in any parent’s best interest to limit their child’s internet usage because I know PLENTY of kids with low self esteem that would be looking for any sort of validation and would try one of these “Am I Pretty?” video blog deals.
Honestly I have been on the internet since 1st grade. My grandpa had Prodigy and we’d surf the net for hours upon hours at a time together. This was ACCEPTABLE internet usage for a minor because we would be looking up all kinds of neat stuff that the web had to offer TOGETHER so he knew what the hell I was looking at. However when I got a tiny bit older and we got that magical AOL he’d leave me to do as I pleased. I had like over 100 boyfriends ranging from ages 18 to 40 something from all over the United States from 3rd grade on. I was sexy girl with “blonde hair and blue eyes that just turned 18” as far as any of them knew. I am hilarious.
This story turns sinister is that I would totally be having “cyber sex” with grown men at the age of 8 and 9 years old. Obviously I wasn’t dumb enough to agree to meet anyone but with old school AOL it DID list you in a PUBLIC directory that gave you city and state so this wasn’t exactly safe for me to do either… I knew about that but didn’t care about the risks. I was getting attention and it was exciting to my young heart.
Now this was forever ago! You can just imagine how weird kids are today. Because I know for a fact this wasn’t strange behavior for a kid in the 90’s… I have talked to many of my friends that are my age that had similar experiences with the interwebz all through their childhood years as well. Also parents, kids aren’t stupid. Mom, I knew the password to the satellite and would watch porn pretty much every night, just so you know… You’re NOT clever.
So in conclusion my opinion of what Cho discussed in her blog post above is just a small part of the whole PROBLEM with kids having free reign on the internet. Like the guy said in the video that she included in her blog post, it’s a parenting issue. “Cyber bullying” has no place in any child’s life and that along with inappropriate sexual attention can both be extremely harmful to a child who’s just developing their sense of self along with their sexuality.
I am PERSONALLY “cyber bullied” to the ends of the earth and back because I am naked online and some asshats take that for bait and try to bring me down. I have gotten some CRAZY ASS emails/comments on several of my different public posts/profiles (of ALL kinds) online. But I am now an adult and I can see that those people that “troll” the internet to “cyber bully” other people (like me, that have the nerve to put ourselves out there…) are so just sad loser fucks that hate themselves and want to take it out on everyone else. Especially on people that they see as being thinner, happier, richer (or whatever their personal insecurities may be) than them.
A happy person that loves them self has WAY MORE important things to do with their lives than sit on a computer and point out the “flaws” in someone else. Case and point. At this point I mainly feel sorry for these people and often laugh at them. But as a child or even a teenager there is no way I would have had the life experience to understand the sad psychology behind any “bully”, let alone an anonymous “cyber bully”. If I had I wouldn’t still have low self esteem about my appearance due to the fucked up kids that made fun of me for this or that through my childhood years and I would have turned out to be a MUCH more interesting & successful adult and NOT a nude model that needs constant validation on her appearance.
Just saying… Watch your damn kids. Get them involved with activities that promote WHO they are INSIDE and don’t put importance on what they look like on the OUTSIDE. Instead of my grandma putting me in modeling school I wish she would have enrolled me in voice (or piano!) lessons. Sure the modeling school helped me learn how to hold myself and “pretend” to be sexy in photos but teaching a child how to be sexy is WRONG! And this goes for allowing your children to take dance lessons from studios that put them in bras and booty shorts and have them dancing to sexually themed music that they don’t know anything about. All that does is teach your little girls how to be AWESOME strippers with advanced musicality (like me!) when they grow up. Children absorb what they are taught and put stock into it like no one else. “Oh I get praised by my parents, teachers and peers when I do my sexy jazz dance perfectly to this R. Kelly song!? WINNING! I wanna dance sexy and get praised FOREVER because it makes me feel envied, worthy and desired!” Or at least that was my thought process when I was a child and look how I turned out?
I’m not saying I think my job, stripping or any other sort of adult work is terrible and should be abolished or ridiculed. I truly believe that by being an adult worker I’ve been allowed the chance to work through a lot of these issues in a proactive and positive way! I know myself and know where these strange parts of me stem from now because of the work I do. But you can’t help but notice the fact that dancing sexily (on dance teams NOT at the studio I grew up taking dance classes at! My teacher was very against having children dance to age inappropriate music in an age inappropriate way!) to sexy music or having “cyber sex” with grown men who thought I was legal and being praised and given massive amounts of attention for these activities had a direct effect on who I am today.
I was “pretty” when I danced well in a sexual manner. I was “pretty” when I was lying (saying I had blonde hair and blue eyes) and could and would take it in any hole that the “chatter” I was IMing with desired. This can not be good for a child’s mental or sexual development because these activities place priority on things they shouldn’t know about until they are mature enough to process that kind of attention.
That’s my 2 cents. The End. :)
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Two AWESOMELY Cute (Non-Insertable & Discreet) Vibrators!!!
I’m really stoked cause today I’m reviewing both the Forbidden Fruit massager and the Love Bunnies vibe! This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines. There are a few reasons that I’d like to list, of why I’m choosing to do a combined review on both of these discreet vibrators specifically in the same blog post…
Mainly because I’m a solo web girl and on my site I’ve used my hitachi a LOT in my videos and member shows… I use the hitachi because it’s powerful, easy to use and it’s not a toy you use by inserting it into the vahjinga. Ha! My viewers often want to see me “get off” with a sex toy but I’m not always up for vaginal penetration… Either just because I don’t feel like penetration that day or it could be due to being on the rag and already having a diva cup already taking up all of the penetrable space in there! Also, the hitachi always has to have an available electrical outlet to operate it so I am limited on where I can work in the apartment depending on whether I am close to an outlet or not. Lastly, the hitachi is NOT cute and it just gets boring for me and I’m sure for my members as well…
Sooooo… I’ve been on a hunt for a few other GOOD non-insertion style sex toys so I don’t bore the piss out of my members or have to use the same old ugly hitachi so often. Like I said, it IS amazing but what I’m seeking is VARIETY! Another reason I’m choose these two SPECIFIC sex toys is due to the fact that I know my readers are diverse… I know there are other experienced web girls and cam girls that read my blog that are going to want higher end sex toys because these are the tools we use daily so we want them to be EASY as far as them either using easy to find and possibly rechargeable batteries or being rechargeable themselves. I think you girls will agree that we also want sex toys that are made from SAFE materials that aren’t going to cause us any undue stress.
But I have other female (and male!) readers that simply trust my opinion on sexuality in general since it is my job and those readers look to me for advice on sex toys that are easy to use, safe and non-intimidating for those that are just starting out with sex toys. Of course my main fan base is male so I have dudes reading that want to know what kind of toys they should get for the ladies in their lives. Many of my homies also tell me they don’t want to feel like they’re competing with a HUGE cock shaped sex toy and instead they would rather get their women something they would be comfortable enough to use on them or with them! These readers may not have a huge budget for sex toys and are going to be more interested in lower priced items that are STILL safe and simple to use.
This is why I chose to introduce you guys to the very affordable Love Bunnies vibe. It’s a GREAT price at ONLY $19.99 on EdenFantasys.com and it’s made of high quality food grade silicone which is a level 10 on our safety scale and as you guys know I LOVE %100 silicone because it’s hypo-allergenic, latex free, non-porous & phthalates free! This means that it’s %100 safe to use around your sensitive areas and you can even remove the splash proof bullet and use the bullet alone or with other toys that require a standard sized bullet. To sterilize this toy, remove the bullet to wash with soap and water and boil the bunny sleeve by itself for a few minutes in a large pot of water. Easy!
The Love Bunnies vibe isn’t a very powerful sex toy at all but you can get a stronger (standard sized) bullet and use it with the cute bunny shaped sleeve if you LOVE the design but need a stronger level of vibration or you can get a completely water proof bullet to use with it so you can take your special little bunny into the bath! This is what I plan to do!
I have been using the Love Bunnies vibe mostly as a teaser toy to warm me up for either a stronger toy or for actual human sex (haha!) with my boyfriend. Because of the cute and simple one click design it isn’t intimidating for him to use on me and that rules to the max! Ha! However, unless you have an overly sensitive vagina this toy isn’t going to be powerful enough to get you off all on its own but you can always upgrade it with a stronger bullet or use it as a warm up to the main event or during foreplay with a partner.
Let me begin talking about our next toy by telling you the price of it and getting that out of the way now… The price of the Forbidden Fruit clocks in at $99 on EdenFantasys.com which may be higher than you might expect to pay for any sex toy but the Forbidden Fruit IS our higher end item that I wanted to show ya’ll today and I really wanted to review both a less expensive (non-insertable/discreet) toy AND a high end (non-insertable/discreet) toy for those of you like me, who invest a lot into sex toys that are WELL WORTH their high price tags…
With the Forbidden Fruit the reason for its high cost is because of its beautiful design as a ripe red apple and also because it’s a powerful rechargeable sex toy that you’ll NEVER have to scrounge around trying to find batteries for. It even comes with a one year warranty in case it something happens with it… The company that produces this product, Rianna S is a VERY high end sex toy manufacturer and they stand by their creations.
It arrives in a gorgeous box and the charging dock is a part of the included storage container which is also designed to be extremely sleek. The toy itself is a 4” by 4” apple with a little green stem that you use to control the massager’s intensity and vibration patterns. It’s VERY strong and though nothing seems to be as strong as the original hitachi, the Forbidden Fruit DOES give Mr. Hitachi a run for his money!
The only thing I can say that bums me out about the Forbidden Fruit is that it’s NOT waterproof. I demonstrate how I wash the Forbidden Fruit without getting it’s charging port wet in the process in the video below:
Now that you’ve watched my video you can see how pretty it is but I forgot to mention that even though this sex toy’s material safety level is only at 8 due to it being made of hard plastic, that hard plastic IS anti-bacterial, food-grade, hypo-allergenic, latex free, non-porous and phthalates free! This toy is just as safe as the hitachi if not safer and I’ve never gotten a UTI (I ALWAYS get UTIs from jelly toys or silicone compound toys!) from using hard plastic sex toys in the past...
I’ve had other massager wands that were nice and powerful like the hitachi but because their heads were smaller in size (ahem! the Fairy rechargeable wand massager
is guilty of this!) they couldn’t really do the trick for me because they didn’t stimulate as large of an area as the large knob on the hitachi can… Well I am happy to report the size of the Forbidden Fruit apple is about the same size as the head of the hitachi but doesn’t have the bulk of the rest of the wand shaft to carry around and because it’s rechargeable it’s definitely more portable!
For the person ready to take the plunge on a really nice high quality sex toy and who wants a massager (…that’s not really noticeable to the naked eye as actually BEING a sex toy) that will also last for a long time and has STRONG vibrations, the Forbidden Fruit is totally the way to go!
Both of the sex toys I’ve told you about in this post (the Forbidden Fruit and the Love Bunnies vibe) aren’t going to be noticeable sitting on your shelf or recognizable as any sort of sex toy. This might be of use to those of you still living at home or with other people that you would prefer for them to not know what it is you’re up to… The other similarity between the two is that they aren’t sex toys that require penetration to use which would make these toys attractive to sex toy beginners or to experienced users like me, who are looking for non-insertable sex toy alternatives for whatever reason we may have... Lastly, both of the above toys are non-intimidating for partners or beginners that may be apprehensive about using a toy that needs to be inserted to be enjoyed.
I hope you guys have all enjoyed my review and if you have ANY questions please don’t hesitate to ask! I love helping out people with questions about the toys a review! It’s why I do this! I hope that if you do give any sex toys that I review a try you’ll let ME know what YOU think!
Mainly because I’m a solo web girl and on my site I’ve used my hitachi a LOT in my videos and member shows… I use the hitachi because it’s powerful, easy to use and it’s not a toy you use by inserting it into the vahjinga. Ha! My viewers often want to see me “get off” with a sex toy but I’m not always up for vaginal penetration… Either just because I don’t feel like penetration that day or it could be due to being on the rag and already having a diva cup already taking up all of the penetrable space in there! Also, the hitachi always has to have an available electrical outlet to operate it so I am limited on where I can work in the apartment depending on whether I am close to an outlet or not. Lastly, the hitachi is NOT cute and it just gets boring for me and I’m sure for my members as well…
Sooooo… I’ve been on a hunt for a few other GOOD non-insertion style sex toys so I don’t bore the piss out of my members or have to use the same old ugly hitachi so often. Like I said, it IS amazing but what I’m seeking is VARIETY! Another reason I’m choose these two SPECIFIC sex toys is due to the fact that I know my readers are diverse… I know there are other experienced web girls and cam girls that read my blog that are going to want higher end sex toys because these are the tools we use daily so we want them to be EASY as far as them either using easy to find and possibly rechargeable batteries or being rechargeable themselves. I think you girls will agree that we also want sex toys that are made from SAFE materials that aren’t going to cause us any undue stress.
But I have other female (and male!) readers that simply trust my opinion on sexuality in general since it is my job and those readers look to me for advice on sex toys that are easy to use, safe and non-intimidating for those that are just starting out with sex toys. Of course my main fan base is male so I have dudes reading that want to know what kind of toys they should get for the ladies in their lives. Many of my homies also tell me they don’t want to feel like they’re competing with a HUGE cock shaped sex toy and instead they would rather get their women something they would be comfortable enough to use on them or with them! These readers may not have a huge budget for sex toys and are going to be more interested in lower priced items that are STILL safe and simple to use.
This is why I chose to introduce you guys to the very affordable Love Bunnies vibe. It’s a GREAT price at ONLY $19.99 on EdenFantasys.com and it’s made of high quality food grade silicone which is a level 10 on our safety scale and as you guys know I LOVE %100 silicone because it’s hypo-allergenic, latex free, non-porous & phthalates free! This means that it’s %100 safe to use around your sensitive areas and you can even remove the splash proof bullet and use the bullet alone or with other toys that require a standard sized bullet. To sterilize this toy, remove the bullet to wash with soap and water and boil the bunny sleeve by itself for a few minutes in a large pot of water. Easy!
The Love Bunnies vibe isn’t a very powerful sex toy at all but you can get a stronger (standard sized) bullet and use it with the cute bunny shaped sleeve if you LOVE the design but need a stronger level of vibration or you can get a completely water proof bullet to use with it so you can take your special little bunny into the bath! This is what I plan to do!
I have been using the Love Bunnies vibe mostly as a teaser toy to warm me up for either a stronger toy or for actual human sex (haha!) with my boyfriend. Because of the cute and simple one click design it isn’t intimidating for him to use on me and that rules to the max! Ha! However, unless you have an overly sensitive vagina this toy isn’t going to be powerful enough to get you off all on its own but you can always upgrade it with a stronger bullet or use it as a warm up to the main event or during foreplay with a partner.
Let me begin talking about our next toy by telling you the price of it and getting that out of the way now… The price of the Forbidden Fruit clocks in at $99 on EdenFantasys.com which may be higher than you might expect to pay for any sex toy but the Forbidden Fruit IS our higher end item that I wanted to show ya’ll today and I really wanted to review both a less expensive (non-insertable/discreet) toy AND a high end (non-insertable/discreet) toy for those of you like me, who invest a lot into sex toys that are WELL WORTH their high price tags…
With the Forbidden Fruit the reason for its high cost is because of its beautiful design as a ripe red apple and also because it’s a powerful rechargeable sex toy that you’ll NEVER have to scrounge around trying to find batteries for. It even comes with a one year warranty in case it something happens with it… The company that produces this product, Rianna S is a VERY high end sex toy manufacturer and they stand by their creations.
It arrives in a gorgeous box and the charging dock is a part of the included storage container which is also designed to be extremely sleek. The toy itself is a 4” by 4” apple with a little green stem that you use to control the massager’s intensity and vibration patterns. It’s VERY strong and though nothing seems to be as strong as the original hitachi, the Forbidden Fruit DOES give Mr. Hitachi a run for his money!
The only thing I can say that bums me out about the Forbidden Fruit is that it’s NOT waterproof. I demonstrate how I wash the Forbidden Fruit without getting it’s charging port wet in the process in the video below:
Now that you’ve watched my video you can see how pretty it is but I forgot to mention that even though this sex toy’s material safety level is only at 8 due to it being made of hard plastic, that hard plastic IS anti-bacterial, food-grade, hypo-allergenic, latex free, non-porous and phthalates free! This toy is just as safe as the hitachi if not safer and I’ve never gotten a UTI (I ALWAYS get UTIs from jelly toys or silicone compound toys!) from using hard plastic sex toys in the past...
I’ve had other massager wands that were nice and powerful like the hitachi but because their heads were smaller in size (ahem! the Fairy rechargeable wand massager
is guilty of this!) they couldn’t really do the trick for me because they didn’t stimulate as large of an area as the large knob on the hitachi can… Well I am happy to report the size of the Forbidden Fruit apple is about the same size as the head of the hitachi but doesn’t have the bulk of the rest of the wand shaft to carry around and because it’s rechargeable it’s definitely more portable!
For the person ready to take the plunge on a really nice high quality sex toy and who wants a massager (…that’s not really noticeable to the naked eye as actually BEING a sex toy) that will also last for a long time and has STRONG vibrations, the Forbidden Fruit is totally the way to go!
Both of the sex toys I’ve told you about in this post (the Forbidden Fruit and the Love Bunnies vibe) aren’t going to be noticeable sitting on your shelf or recognizable as any sort of sex toy. This might be of use to those of you still living at home or with other people that you would prefer for them to not know what it is you’re up to… The other similarity between the two is that they aren’t sex toys that require penetration to use which would make these toys attractive to sex toy beginners or to experienced users like me, who are looking for non-insertable sex toy alternatives for whatever reason we may have... Lastly, both of the above toys are non-intimidating for partners or beginners that may be apprehensive about using a toy that needs to be inserted to be enjoyed.
I hope you guys have all enjoyed my review and if you have ANY questions please don’t hesitate to ask! I love helping out people with questions about the toys a review! It’s why I do this! I hope that if you do give any sex toys that I review a try you’ll let ME know what YOU think!
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