tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6050483008531911543.post6174443898457832332..comments2023-11-08T00:21:18.007-08:00Comments on UndressJess: The Unicorn of Porn: Keep Your Kids Away From The Internetz Plz.(aka "UndressJess")http://www.blogger.com/profile/09031237749977991520noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6050483008531911543.post-72590064082673422352012-05-13T10:07:18.419-07:002012-05-13T10:07:18.419-07:00My intention is not to bring you down but I can...My intention is not to bring you down but I can't help but to see fallacies in this "morale" you are trying to put across. I think it's good that you're raising awareness of how fucked up some people raise their kids and what can happen on the internet. But still, there are two things I find odd that I would like to focus on the most.<br /><br /><br />First of all - Do you really blame the lack of internet censorship for what you were doing on the internet as a child? The way you are writing makes it sound like they tried to put passwords up but you just ignored them anyway because you had personal interests of your own. And also, it sounds weird to me that a small girl would be having cyber sex on the internet at the age of 8-9. Those weren't exactly my intentions with the PC when I was a kid. It sounds to me like you had something messed up going on back then. Because I don't think that if a average normal child were to be placed in front of the internet, their first urge would be to have cyber sex with old men. Have you talked to a shrink about this? Im not trying to be insulting but I think it sounds odd and I still know a fair bit about about childhood sexuality.<br /><br />Of course the internet should be moderated for a child but I think it's more important that parents actually take the time to talk to their kids about sex rather then just censor everything away. That's what has a deep impact in the long run. Not "THIS IS FORBIDDEN" because that only attracts kids even more.<br /><br /><br />Second - The way you are writing makes it look like you hate yourself and your profession is something bad that should be used as a warning example. I resent that, not only because I enjoy porn, but also because it seems like you KNOW you are doing something wrong but yet you keep doing it anyway.<br />"I would have turned out to be a MUCH more interesting & successful adult and NOT a nude model that needs constant validation on her appearance. "<br /><br />I know that you wrote that you don't mean anything bad about the porn industry but there still seems to be a certain negative tone about it running through the entire text. I just need to throw this out there; WHY are you even a nude model if you know it's something self-destructive? Quite frankly it seems like you're abusing the porn industry for your own personal issues. That's not the right reasons to do porn. You're not going to be able to gain acceptance towards yourself from other people, it needs to come from within. Otherwise you're just wasting time.<br /><br />The problem in this case doesn't seem to be related to the internet at all. It seems to be related to your relatives. How fucked up is your grandmother if she made you take modeling classes where you were supposed to look "sexy" as a child? Jesus fucking christ, that's not normal and that must have scarred you more then anything.<br /><br />You wrote that as a child you would watch porn every night. I was a curious kid myself but I wasn't doing that until I was 12-13 and had access to it on TV, I wouldn't go out of my way to do it when I was 9. Everyone is different I suppose, but it just sounds odd to me.<br /><br />Im just saying that perhaps you should work out your problems with a professional instead of porn. Yes, you have been bullied and that's horrible. I have been bullied as well. But there is a point where you need to separate your past from the present and stop letting other peoples opinions matter anymore. You are the one who chooses whether or not you should move on. It is a CHOICE as to whether or not you're gonna cut other peoples perceptions away from yourself. As it looks now, you haven't.<br /><br />I wish you the best.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6050483008531911543.post-75441176943030680332012-05-13T10:03:54.889-07:002012-05-13T10:03:54.889-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com